May this journey be meaningful...

Saturday, April 22, 2006

Marriage Proposal...

Eh wait, don't be mistaken when you see the title, NO NO it's not me who got a marriage proposal lah...hehehe...how I wish huh :P
It was one of my close guy friend in the office. Today, all of a sudden he asked me a few times whether I was free or not. I turned him down a few times 'cause I was too busy to layan him hahaha...so when I was finally available, I attended to his request. In fact the 1st few times, he asked me, I jokingly replied "Eh, you wana propose to me is it? Don't waste time lah. Hahaha" then I walked away. How the hell would I know that my joke really came true. Can't believe it man, we really are tuned to the same channel. No wonder we are close friends. So, back to his motive, actually he wanted to ask me to help guide him how to do a marriage proposal to his gf, ie. where to buy ring?, venue to do it?, what he needs to prepare?, etc... I was caught by surprised 'cause about a year ago, I encouraged him to consider marriage but he was not keen at all then. Well, he finally accepted my advise. I'm so happy for him eventhough it feels a bit funny lah hahaha...His face was all red when I teased him...hahaha...I'm so evil! But of course I gave him my advise and offered to help him make the necessary arrangements for his proposal. Once again, I'm extremely happy and glad he's ready for this big next step after a long 5 years relationship. Ganbatte!! Not many of my guy friends are as brave as him. Marriage is not an easy decision especially for guys. Most of them are cowards, they dare not step into this big commitment. These guys are selfish bastards. For guys whom are reading this, please wake up from your selfishness and provide a secured future to your loved ones. Chance only comes once, if you missed it, regret is useless. Girls' patience is limited. Once she loses hope and doesn't see anymore secured future with you, well that means it's time to pack up and leave you forever. Girls' heart is very unique, when they love you so much, they see a bright future with you and hope oneday they'll be that special person in your life. But if you kept her waiting for too long, the love will slowly die down and she'll lose the trust in you. My good friend today made a right decision. Smart fella! I wish he and his special girl, happy together forever and love each other more and more each day. After all, love should not have a limit and we should never stop loving each other. Love that keeps growing leads to a healthy relationship. Love is never enough. Everyone enjoys to be loved. If you think you already have enough love from someone, that means the love has died and can't grow any further. To all the lovers out there, promise yourself from today onwards, do love your special girl/guy much more than what you are currently giving and make it grow as time goes by. Both of you will be a happier person I guarantee. All the best my dear friends...

*i hope my special guy will also love me more each day...hehehe...

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